When sex has become routine, especially the obligation is very likely eliminate her magical power, so you and your partner do it sober. Severe is when you're on stage "if no, yes, it's okay."
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In fact, intimacy is important for your happiness and your partner. Couples who are happy to make the home atmosphere pleasant, and most importantly, the kids were happy. Terri Orbuch, PhD, author of the book Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship, provides a five-step fire burning love you anymore.
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1. Chat
When was the last time you talked with your spouse? Not just talk about the issue with leaking roof or bathroom plumbing must be replaced. Talk about a honeymoon period first. Face-to-eye, share memories of the past that makes you so passionate about it.
2. Create a sex signal
Each couple has their own communication style, especially when you're passionate about, whether through eye gaze, glance, or a smile, or a solicitation sentence only you two understand. Every time you feel passionate about, give him the signal.
3. Always try new
For one thing there's no need to try anything too dramatic, such as leather garments with a whip. Forget it kinky like that, especially when it makes you uncomfortable. Having sex with the inconvenience of actually killing the passion itself. Try something simple, such as aroma therapy, soak in warm water alone, or massaging each other. Anything that makes you both comfortable. You can also do it in a totally new place (such as a hotel or staircase), where you and your partner have never choose to have sex. Still in doubt? Buy the book collection of sex style; see both together and select a style that will be tried.
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4. Realize your fantasy
Quiet, fantasy sex is a natural and healthy sex life. With notes, the fantasy does not make either of you feel uncomfortable, as well as the impact on the physical or emotional violence. Before sharing, you and your partner should make a limited basis between the permissible and which are not. No less important, pledged to respect each individual fantasy.
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5. Plan and execute!
Many couples assume, sex schedule will reduce "gregetnya". In fact. plan a romantic evening alone with scenarios that are designed together can be very exciting. Giving each a wonderful feeling of waiting for something. However, keep in mind, once the commitment is made, you both need to be obedient to run it. No reason was fatigue or mood mess. Regular sex will solve the hormone passion out, making you and your partner still want to have sex with each other even after tens of years of marriage.
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