Need To schedule Sex?

Ever thought to schedule sex with your husband? Maybe it sounds strange, romantic and less spontaneous. But why rush to say no, if it could be a solution for your wedding.

Think you schedule a time to go the doctor, exercise in the gym or just meet with friends. Why not write a personal agenda and make an appointment for sex with husband tonight at 9.

"This could be a solution for busy couples maintain intimacy," says Janice Epp, Ph.D., Dean of the Institute for Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality, San Francisco, USA.

"I've seen many young couples who work 14 to 15 hours a day and they wonder why they are so rarely have sex with a partner," said Epp.

"Then, a couple in their 50's, 60's, 70's and no longer see the importance of sex. They have for years put sex umpteen numbers than any other business."

Although sound odd to schedule sex can be the best way for couples who are still interested in sex as well as save the marriage and their sex lives.

Epp scheduling equate sex with scheduling meetings, haircuts, spa etc.. It's a sign you're building anticipation for your relationship. "Some people say, 'Sex should be spontaneous!" For me it's crap! " Epp said with a laugh. "You make a plan, a schedule other things, then what's the difference with sex."

You have to plan sex date at the right time. That is the moment you both in prime condition is not too tired. Maybe a new morning when you wake up, while bathing together or enjoyment of the afternoon session on the weekend.

 "It's important that you have an intimate time together, Regardless it involves sex or not," said Epp. If this still feels awkward for you. Or even worse, the desire for a husband had gone out since having children, you can start by dating.

"What is required couples have time alone without any disturbance," said Epp. "Do not talk about work, kids or mortgage. Rather hugging, touching, or massaging."

Togetherness allows couples to rebuild intimacy fading due to the daily grind. "Having a fun and beautiful again, the next step is scheduling a longer intimacy or sex," Epp suggestions.

By scheduling sex and commit to that schedule, sex can be a valuable and enjoyable part of your relationship again. It may not be easy, but it's worth a try.

"Sex is a natural thing, but sometimes something so natural can not function without the help and effort," he concluded.